Posted by
Thomas Lasher on Wednesday, February 21, 2007 8:10:12 PM
Have you noticed there have been a lot of ads lately for fish dinners? We have all received coupons in the mail and seen the commercials on television featuring fresh lobster, shrimp, and all-you-can-eat crab buffets – all the finest seafood delicacies for this special time of the year. So eat up, pig out, treat yourself to the best…or at least that seems to be the prevailing sentiment. Lent has arrived.
Lent consists of the roughly forty days on the Christian calendar preceding the celebration of Easter. It is a time of fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. Lent is a reflection of, and is prefigured by, the forty days of rain endured by Noah in his ark, the forty years during which Moses led the Jewish people through the desert, and most especially the forty days of fasting and prayer spent by Jesus in solitude before he began his public ministry. Lent concludes with Holy Week which commemorates the suffering and death of Jesus and his burial in the tomb. Easter then is the calm after the storm, the land flowing with milk and honey after a long and arduous journey, and above all it is the joy of the Resurrection after the pain of the Crucifixion.
The predominant theme of Lent is sacrifice, a giving up of earthly comforts and pleasures to mimic the trials that our religious forebears underwent, and to conform more closely our lives to that of Christ – the ultimate sacrificial victim. All of this should make it a little more difficult for Christians to swallow that second (or third) helping of shrimp scampi and lobster tail next Friday night.
But my point here is not entirely religious in nature. The Christian concept of sacrifice as desirable and even beneficial in our lives has far reaching implications even beyond a particular theology or faith tradition. An embrace of sacrifice speaks to the reality of our human condition. To sacrifice on behalf of others is the surest sign of love for fellow man. Strong religious faith, drawing from examples in scripture and religious disciplines, certainly helps to motivate the believer to give of oneself. This positive view of sacrifice is perhaps most fully developed in Christian theology, but it is not limited to Christianity alone. Sacrifice is important to even the nonbeliever.
Soldiers sacrifice their lives for our freedom and prosperity. Parents sacrifice time and money to raise their children. Volunteers in many diverse fields give selflessly so that others might have whatever is lacking in their lives. Any gesture of kindness we do for a stranger that requires effort on our part without seeking any compensation in return is a kind of sacrifice. This Christian concept, expressed in phrases like “love thy neighbor,” and “give one’s life for a friend,” are universal in their application. Christian sacrifice, indeed Christianity itself, is meant to be universal.
But it seems that sacrifice has lost its appeal in modern times. As every generation has made sacrifices on behalf of future generations there has arisen the notion that we must remove this burden from our children. “I will do without certain comforts so that my kids will not have to.” With each successive generation we further shield our children from the discomfort of self-sacrifice. Very soon we forget that sacrifice is a powerful tool in building a sense of responsibility, moral character, and love. By giving our children a life filled with comfort and ease and fulfillment of every desire, we fail to instill a proper appreciation for the truly good things they have. Sacrifice becomes an experience to avoid, a suffering without purpose. But sacrifice, properly directed and motivated by love, is essential to building a strong and nurturing community. Sacrifice does have a purpose.
Many non-Christians (and even quite a few Christians) might argue that sacrifice certainly contributes to a more compassionate society and fosters love of neighbor, but why does God care if I eat fish or steak on a particular day, or if I fast at certain times of the year? This certainly seems to be sacrifice without purpose. It is a pointless religious practice.
Perhaps the key to answering this charge is the word “practice.” The virtue of sacrifice can only be attained if we put it into practice. To give up something so small and insignificant such as meat on Friday or the quantity of food we consume does not benefit anyone directly. But it is an easy way for each of us to disciple ourselves to make larger sacrifices down the road. The point is not what we give up, but that a life of sacrifice is willingly embraced and actively incorporated into our very being.
In a nation that is so blessed with abundance and where poverty (I mean destitute poverty) is so rare, the need to make great sacrifice for those around us is not as tangible as it might be. In other places throughout the world human tragedy is a way of life, and in those places people must truly come to terms with sacrifice and search for its meaning every day. We would all do well to explore the depth of sacrifice in our own lives even if it means a little less on the plate this Lent.